"Strength in numbers"...The random ramblings of a chic like me...

1) I have little to no tolerance for individuals that continue to bitch and moan about their particular situation yet make no moves to change...granted I do understand that everyone may not be as self centered or impulsive as I am (see, when I say I Am Over it, please believe I am) and some changes do take time, but I mean come on!  Make a move already geesh!!!!

2) I may have a few sociopath tendencies( check the DSM on this one)...I sometimes call it "superpowers" some people may call it manipulation...at any rate, I am finding that by really paying very little attention to what someone is saying while zeroing in on their behavior, I can learn a lot about that individual and in turn, get clarity on things I may have had questions about, ore even get the results out of them that I desire...Fear not, I use my powers for good not evil...sometimes.

3) My daughter is ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS on a whole different level....Okay, now I know that she is mine but she has this look and demeanor about her that literally stops people in their tracks....even me.  Yesterday she was in a program and she marched in with the other children and she literally took my breath away, there she was, towering above children her same age with this flawless rich dark complexion, thick jet black hair and eyelashes that I could see from my seat in the back of the room...just beautiful!!!  I could go on and on about my Icy pop!

4) I am getting better dealing with myself and others...Do not get me wrong, people still get on my effen nerves at times, but somewhere within me, I am learning to leave it where it is at. Here is the thing, I have some individuals and situations that will always...always  be a source of angst for me because I have to deal with them ( I call those my triggers)  but as for the superficial stuff that has been renting space in my head and my life, I have been passing out eviction notices...I am "chunking up the deuces" to residual bullshit.

5) I really do love myself...at least more than I used to :)  This part of my journey is never ending.  That is another blog...

6) I am really enjoying life and what it is bringing me....Each day is a new adventure, and instead of being apprehensive, I am welcoming the unknown, because lets face it, the unknown is always the next second away...

7) I continue on my journey to fit the pieces together...even though I know the puzzle will never be complete.

Be Well
xoxo